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Consumption In The Time Of Recession November 9, 2008

Filed under: Budget, budgeting, consumer, lifestyle, money, new york city — ency @ 2:02 pm
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Times are tough or so every newspaper, news show, nosy neighbor, etc. says. Perhaps you’ve even begun to feel the pinch every time you go food shopping or to the gas pump – and by pinch, I don’t mean one of those light playful ones given by a lover or your football coach BUT I mean one of those hard, mean ones the 6th grade bully used to inflict on you. Err, I think you know what I’m getting at… anyway, I know that I’m worried- the live-in bf and I are both freelancers and just moved into a new rental. We have a lot more space at the new place but the rent is also $450 more a month than the old apartment. It’s a good thing that my freelance work is pretty steady – I’ve worked pretty much everyday for the past 4 years – don’t let me get into the evils of the company and why they would rather keep an army load of workers on freelance- I could go on for days.

Anyway, so the bf and I have decided to be proactive and try to slash our bills and cut back like every scared American is doing right now. But we don’t want our lifestyles to change drastically. I mean we like good food and fun… and well, consumption in general. (Don’t blame me – blame the advertisers – I’m a product of my generation and a marketer’s wet dream.) Again, anyway – I guess we want to be smarter about or spending. Less wasteful.

So, how to make small changes to our spending that make snowball into big savings? We took a long hard look at what we were spending our precious dollars on and we decided to make changes to it.

Some of the easy changes I made:

1. I changed my cell phone plan – after reviewing – I wasn’t using all my minutes – so I chose the plan that was a step down in minutes. It’s been working out just fine.

2. The bf wanted to get rid of the Netflix but I convinced him that cutting down the plan to the unlimited one at a time was the better way to go. I suppose we are really overstimulated between that, our cable (which includes HBO and Showtime), our magazine subscriptions, our books and all the crap we watch online. Heh, we may still end up closing our account later BUT Netflix lives to fight another day.

3. We’ve been eating in a lot more. At the old apartment, we were surrounded by a lot of great restaurants so, running downstairs for lunch or dinner or a snack was as easy as breathing – now, it’s a little bit of a walk to a good restaurant – and that has been helpful in forcing us to cook more. I actually do like cooking – it’s finding the time for it that is a challenge. But last week, we were able to make a few good things that also became bring to work lunches. We made my grandmother’s veggie soup, short rib curry, baked chicken, and I think we even steamed a flounder at some point. Last night, we had some friends over for hot pot. (All easy recipes to follow in the next posting.) Eating in has a number of benefits – it’s cheaper than eating out. It’s a lot healthier. And, I think my cooking skills are slowly improving. It still takes me forever to chop veggies but I’m eyeing this gadget that may change all that – which a friend gave us a 20% off coupon for.

4. So, that last sentence leads me into change number 4… coupons. There are a ton of coupons out there that will help you save a lot of money. I have found coupons on food, clothing, electronics, etc. My friend gave us a ton of coupons for Bed, Bath and Beyond. Some of the coupons have expired but Bed, Bath, and Beyond still honors them. While it’s one coupon per item, the store actually lets you use as many coupons per visit as you’d like. Cutting coupons is not fun or sexy but you’ll thank yourself when you have a few more dollars in your wallet. Dollars that can be spent somewhere else!

My best friend actually is the one who got me into thinking like a smart shopper years ago. We don’t pay full price retail for any of our clothes, bags, shoes or accessories. We live in New York City and there are sample sales every other week, discounted clothing stores (hello, Century 21 and Loehmanns), and coupons for other stores. And especially right now – retailers are desperate to get shoppers attention – so, with some good googling – you can find some great details. I actually signed up for some emails from stores – yes, I know getting their emails can be annoying at times – BUT, by signing up I was able to get an email from Club Monaco saying they were discounting a lot of their inventory to 40% off which also Neiman Marcus sent a similar email. I also got coupons for Sephora, Gap&BR&OldNavy&PiperLime, Jcrew, H&M, etc. So, it actually does pay to sign up for store announcements. And through some very stylish friends, I got forwards for a plethora of sample sales that are going on. So, don’t pay full price for it!

Anyway, that’s all my ADD brain can churn out today. I’m going to go read the NY Times… ummm, also free if read online which I have been doing for years.

 

Self-Imposed Exile From Consumerism & Materialism Planned For 2008 December 31, 2007

I’m going on a spending freeze in 2008… well, a semi-spending freeze.  That means everything but the necessities have to be free or cheap, really cheap.  This might also be a good time for me to rethink what the necessities really are.  Food, yes.  Clothes, no.  Etc.  I’m also trying to cut down entertainment expenditure.  The only way I can really think of doing this is by staying in more.   (Good thing I got all the hijinks out of my system already!)

I’m not a masochist.  I just have a lot of things I’m saving up for – trip to Turks & Caicos, family cruise, best friend’s wedding, cousin’s wedding, money for a possible move.  I’d also like to one day buy a place – seems like such a pipedream sometimes.

This is going to be a good experiment in restraint and will power.

I loaded up on cheap books at Barnes & Noble.  They’re having a huge warehouse sale online- 50 -90 % off.  All the books I bought were under $4.

And I’ve already been making great use of my local library.  The Jackson Heights library is surpisingly high tech and there are quite a few good books to be found there.    It’s not your grandmother’s library!

I also signed up for a free trial of Netflix – which btw, I will not be canceling after the two week trial period.  $16.99 a month is cheaper than a movie date for the bf and I!

Our first three dvds are:

1.  Firefly Disc 1 – it’s really good- we’re hooked

2. 2009 Lost Memories

3.  Superbad

We haven’t watched 2009 Lost Memories or Superbad yet.

I had a couple more goodies that I have to (more like want to) pay for / buy before it’s bed time for bozo on the extraneous spending.

They include:

1.  Tennis Lessons – 12 classes for $295!

2.  Hunter Boots – b/c they last forever and I hate the rain

3.  Warm High Boots – b/c I’m a wimp and can’t stand the cold

4.  Winter Coat – b/c my office mates think I’m a homeless person sometimes

After those purchases – it’s going to be lean times.  I’m not looking forward to this self-enforced exile from consumerism and materialism .  The bf gave me a sewing machine for Christmas – perhaps I’ll get really, really good at making my own clothes.  Or perhaps not.

Btw, the New York Times recently published their Critic’s Picks of Favorite Books of 2007.

http://www.nytimes.com/2007/12/28/books/28intro.html?em&ex=1199163600&en=78b14d676584e2a6&ei=5087%0A

 

Uniqlo Jeans Are The Best Thing On Earth. November 17, 2007

Filed under: Budget, consumer, japanese, jeans, uniqlo — ency @ 11:46 am

The H&M on 42nd St & 5th ave is having 25% off entire purchases on Black Friday (the day after Thanksgiving) from 6 – 10 am ET.  Yes, I know it’s early.  It might just motivate me to go to work earlier.  I opted to work on Friday.  The workaholic mentality of a freelancer.  If I don’t work- I don’t get paid.

My clothes don’t fit properly these days so I’ve been on a semi-budgeted shopping spree.  Rather than buy expensive jeans to replace my expensive jeans- I was on the hunt for expensive like jeans for cheap.  I didn’t win any of my ebay bids soooo that had me hitting the streets for the next GREAT thing.

After a tip from a friend- I went to Uniqlo the Japanese wonderstore- right next to Muji the next new Japanese wonderstore.  I’ve been to Uniqlo before but never for their jeans.  OMG.  I have been missing out.  The denim quality is amazing as are most of their rinses- and the price- unbeatable.

They were having a 25% off new denim sale because it’s their one year anniversary.  I bought two pairs of skinny jeans for $37.15 each.  Their regularly priced  at $49.99.  I also got an earlier seasoned pair of jeans for $29.99.  It’s a heavier denim and wider leg.

I also scored a long down coat that’s somehow manages to be sleek and semi-stylish.

I bought two pairs of jeans for the bf- but they were too tight for his liking despite being the widest cut for guys there.  Apparently, Uniqlo believes in the tight rocker look for men.  The bf is pretty lean too.

I wore one of the skinny jeans yesterday and it felt like I was wearing soft sweatpants.  I almost slept in them.

I heart Uniqlo jeans.

I have to stop myself from going back to buy backups of these ones.

I am looking forward to checking out Muji soon.  I love Muji.  Yes, sometimes I can be a consumer slut.

 

Engagement Party On A Budget – The List August 28, 2007

Filed under: Budget, budgeting, do it yourself, engagement party, food — ency @ 11:49 pm

Ok, so a total of 22 people are coming to the engagement party I’m throwing for my friend.  I have to make a budget and stick to it.  I hate doing that but I think I’ve finally gotten sick of having my generosity taken advantage of – I’m tired of people treating me like their personal ATM or sugardaddy.  I am no Rockefeller.  I’m just an ordinary working stiff.

So, the challenge is going to be throwing a nice party without going over my budget.

Good thing is- the engagement party is going to be between 2-6pm on a weekend which means- don’t have to serve a full lunch or dinner.  It’s going to be during that lovely gray area of culinary time which means – finger foods and appetizers.

So far my refreshments list includes:

3 bottles of Champagne (I’m hoping ppl won’t notice it’s budget.  No Dom.)

2 bottles of white wine

2 bottles of red wine

2 bottles of soda

Crudite

Cheese & Crackers

Fruit Salad

Pasta Salad (?)

Different Fancy & Not So Fancy Sandwiches

Italian Rainbow Cookies (Bride’s Favorite)

Red Velvet Cake (Bride’s Favorite)

Other cookies or baked goods (?)

Terra Chips

Tortilla Chips

Salsa

I was also going to try to have people bring things like photos and etc. to try to put together a scrap book for them.  I don’t know if the budget will allow it but – also wonder if I can have a pic of them blown up.

I also have to clean my apartment and get some of the bf’s artwork framed up – and find frames for some photos I have lying around.

Also want to get fresh cut flowers for that day.

I am so dead.

 

Pink Floyd Crooned About It. All I Know Is I Need It. Moneyyyy. August 9, 2007

Filed under: Budget, Exercise, Fitness, budgeting, diet, lifestyle, money, new york city — ency @ 9:54 pm

I’ve always been bad about budgeting. In fact, I’ve never been able to stick to any budget that I’ve created. I’m not frugal. I’m too generous with my money. I like nice things way too much. I like eating out. I’m a walking talking consumer extradonaire and a marketer’s dream.

Well, it’s time to change my ways.

For the next few months (let’s say at least til the end of the year- so, that’s 4 months), I want to be able to save half of my monthly paycheck. My rent is about 25% of my monthly pay- which leaves me with about 25% to live on.

I think it’ll be hard but doable. That means making some sacrifices- something else that I’m not very good at. That 25% “allowance” money is going to have to cover my groceries, monthly metrocard, entertainment, etc.

So, I guess, for the next few months- I’m going to try to bring my lunch to work. I’m going to try to cook dinner at home as much as possible from Mon – Fri. Any dining out should really only take place on the weekend. Egads.

I am going to avoid stores! Or somehow build up my willpower. I need some fall/winter basics – but that’s it. Have to make a list and stick to it!

I don’t want to deny myself too much because- well, because I DON’T want to. Life is meant to be enjoyed… I just have to do it more responsibly.

Somehow in the next few months that 25% allowance is also going to have help me cover my half of a new imac- a small engagement party I’m throwing for one of my best friends, a camping trip- oh, and we’re making dinner for one of the bf’s best buds and his wife this weekend. Not to mention next week’s trip to Cape May. Raw roh, Shaggy!

I am in desperate need of a new bikini for the trip. Why does such small scraps of fabric cost sooo much? Most of the stores only have odds and ends of swim wear. I couldn’t find any matching tops and bottoms at a bargain price at any of the usual stores.

So, it’s either shell out some big bucks for a bikini or somehow lose some weight to fit in the ones I already have. They’re a little too snug.

Guess who’s going to be dieting and working out like mad in the next week?

How the hell am I going to throw a nice engagement party on a budget?! I’m not crafty!

I need to figure out how to earn some extra dollars!